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About Kitagrl

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  • Birthday 01/31/1975

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  • Gender Female
  • Location: Philly 'burbs
  • Are you IFB? Yes

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  1. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Diet Overboard?   

    Sometimes I feel like naturopaths sort of make things up.  All the buzzwords like 'drawing toxins out of your body" and "cleanses"....God created our bodies to sort of do that on their own....the liver and kidneys do just that.
    Granted, in our day, there are more toxins going on.  (Less viruses and bacteria though.)  But I think we have to be careful because a lot of Christians jump fully on the naturopath bandwagon when we have to remember that many (not all) of these people base this entire lifestyle on the premise that life is from Mother Earth and is based in ancient Chinese religious with earth....meditation...cleanses....things like that.   Some of them work...some of them, I think, are old wives' tales that work similarly to placebo effect.
    I think we have to have balance....try to live healthy and take care of our bodies but not put all our faith in "Natural cures".   Anyway....herbals are chemicals too and must be used with care.
    I know when my friend went paleo I reminded her that "Paleo" is completely based on evolutionary theory.  She agreed and said she was just loosely following it.  But the word "Paleo" just drives me nuts because it teaches us to be healthy by eating like cavemen!
  2. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Diet Overboard?   

    She doesn't...but she also knows that I cook around other people's diets and that I have asked several times to send me a list.  Or maybe she's afraid I won't get the right things or something, I don't know.
    I guess I hate it too because other than the older lady, she's the only one in this area even close to possibly being a true "Friend"....and then this comes up, and it's not exactly "between" us but in a way it is because it's hard to have a regular casual friendship when all those things need to be planned ahead.  haha.   I mean, we do things once in awhile together and stuff but like I said, the already slightly isolated gets even more isolated with such a restrictive lifestyle.
    Oh and she actually told me the other day that she has no friends.  :-(   I said, "Oh, well what about me?  I'm your friend."  She said, "Yeah but you are so busy with your kids and your j OB s and everything else."    Sigh.   But she works a j OB too.... I guess she was just going through a rough time.
    It was hard to hear though...since I, too, feel I have no friends, and have even sort of discussed it vaguely with her in the past...and then she tells me she has no friends.  BLEH!  hahaha.
    I did invite her for Christmas dinner, I hope they agree.  They have come the two past Christmases.
    BTW this is a private forum Google....
  3. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Diet Overboard?   

    I read where some people over in the UK wear special clothes to reflect wifi waves because they say they give them bad headaches and other symptoms if they are around wifi.  Which is like everywhere.  So they mostly stay home.
    I dunno...I mean, I can sorta see the risks...but since it's everywhere, and we're all gonna die anyway, I have chosen to leave that off my already long list of worries.  haha.
  4. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Diet Overboard?   

    I try to!  I love the challenge of creating a difficult dish!  I tell her to send me a list of foods that she can have, and she's like, "No, I'll just bring my own, thanks anyway!"    Whatever.  haha.    I have an older lady who is allergic to soy and they came for Thanksgiving and I made the bread for the stuffing homemade, and the graham crackers for the cheesecake crust homemade, just to avoid soy in everything.  So I have no pr OB lem doing extra to work around diets.  *shrug*   
  5. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Tablets   

    My husband loves his iPad for preaching from.
  6. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Diet Overboard?   

    It's just tough because like if you want to "go out" then there's only like one or two restaurants she can even go to, and even then not often.   And then if you invite her over, she brings all her own food.  Which is fine, but I just feel so bad...I guess me, I feel like she could go off the diet ONE time ONCE in awhile on a holiday to enjoy herself with others (Unless certain things would make her feel ill, of course) because I have my doubts that one could get cancer from ONE microwaved dish or ONE slice of pie.   But I guess I haven't had cancer yet.  I just feel badly because I feel like the restrictive habits further isolate her when she already feels isolated, to some extent.
    Oh well.
  7. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Tablets   

    Worst thing I ever did was buy my kids iPods.  It opened a door to my oldest son I wish he had never gone through.   We got rid of those and after a bit of counseling, hopefully my oldest son is beginning to heal from some of it.  It got my second son way to hooked on gaming.  My third son was young enough not to be seriously affected by it.  Just thoughts.
    Anyway for adults I LOVE Apple iPad, and Kindle Fire is, I think, pretty good too.   I haven't had any experience at all with others, and only have seen the Kindle.
    If for kids, be sure to make sure the parents know all about parental controls, because I did N OT know about that with my kids' iPods.   Parents should turn internet access completely off for any child with a tablet.   We learned the hard way.
  8. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Diet Overboard?   

    Hi ladies!  I haven't posted in here for awhile!
    I have a slight concern...I have a friend in our small church (my hubby is pastor) and she had cancer and had a hysterectomy.  She also has thyroid pr OB lems, etc.
    Anyway because of her health issues, she started going to a naturopath dr to get her diet straightened up because of the cancer.  Her cancer has not come back for three years so far, so that's awesome!  But sometimes I'm afraid she is sooooo paranoid that it is affecting other things.
    She won't use a microwave, she won't eat most regular foods except a narrow diet from the naturopath...she paid $600 (and they don't have a lot of money) to go to a special naturopath dentist to remove her old metal fillings and replace them with ceramic or whatever the white stuff is.  She buys all organic, eats gluten free and most other stuff-free.  
    I know recently she's started to feel a little lonely...our church is quite lonely with not a lot of available friends, and they do not have other friends in the area because she is a transplant from out west when she got married three years ago.  She cannot have children.
    I really just feel like if she would loosen up a LITTLE bit and still maintain a healthy diet, and even gluten free if she wants, she could enjoy life a bit more.   She always brings her own food everywhere she goes.   She refuses to eat anything from a microwave.  (Cell phones give off microwaves too.  You can't get away from those.)
    I guess it's none of my business.  I've gently questioned her before in the past but she is unswayed...she is so terrified of cancer that she would pr OB ably just drink water and eat green beans or something if a naturopath told her that's what she had to do.   She takes all kinds of herbs and supplements.  (Which I'm okay with in moderation, but not in excess, because to me, that stuff is chemical too, and needs to be regulated as to dosage.)
    I guess I should just mind my own business and stop worrying about somebody else's life eh?   I wanted to tell her "Why do you avoid microwave ovens?   Cell phones do the same thing and you have a cell phone.  And WiFi does the same thing, and it's everywhere."  But I guess all that would do is serve to make her worry more, not less.
    I have my own medical paranoias, but not really to where it affects my everyday life (except the anxiety that arises from it LOL).  So I guess, to an extent, I understand where she is coming from.  But I feel like it must be sooo stressful to feel like you have to avoid 60% of everything you come in contact with in your life, just to avoid cancer....and that is still no guarantee that you are avoiding cancer because of it.  Maybe she would be avoiding cancer anyway...or maybe she will still get it back regardless (hope not.)
    Am I crazy to be concerned about this?  I guess pr OB ably I am, huh....
  9. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: More American Justice   

    The evidence and witnesses in Ferguson pretty clearly laid out self defense.  I fully supported Officer Wilson.  He was attacked.  Period.
    The case in NYC I have not does not seem right, on first view...but somehow a Grand Jury felt it was okay.  Terrible timing, that's for sure.
    What gets me is that shortly after the Ferguson shooting, a black cop shot a white man in Utah.  The white man did not attack the cop or anything..he just refused to put his hands up, and then when he suddenly shot them up, the cop thought he had a gun, and shot him dead.  (I saw the video, the cop was wearing a camera).    But the man had been unarmed.  But no media wants to touch that one with a ten foot pole.
    I'm tired of the inequality.  I'm not racist.  I have not done anything to anyone of another skin color.  So I don't expect to be on the receiving end of a lot of racism lately.   If the media wants to make a big deal about cop shootings, then they need to report ALLLL of them.  Not just the white on black ones.
  10. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: We Are At War. . . . Again   

    I'm more worried about the brewing civil war at the moment.
  11. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Way Of Life - Hating The Rapture   

    I was a teenager in an IFB church who taught mid-trib, and the pastor today has converted a few other pastors to the same viewpoint.   Some of you would know at least one of them.
    We have to be careful how we interpret end-times passages.  Some of them are written for the church age, but others are written for the saved people (mostly Jews) during the Tribulation.
  12. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Way Of Life - Dolly Parton   

    At least he's pointing out pr OB lems in people who are OB viously pr OB lems rather than nitpicking preachers.  haha.   Although I guess because I live up North, I know N OB ODY who looks up to Dolly Parton.  LOL.  This must be for the Nashville churches!
  13. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: I Want To Leave Home.   

    Air purifiers can help too....get one (a nice large one, Amazon has decent prices) and then put it in your room and keep the door closed at all times.  That way at least you can sleep okay.
  14. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Pope Says It Is Wrong To Equate Islam With Violence   

    That's a little weird.  But yeah I think Fundamentalist is pretty much out now.  It tends to make people think of abuse and hate.  :-(  I personally do not use it to describe myself anymore.
  15. Kitagrl added a post in a topic: Pope Says It Is Wrong To Equate Islam With Violence   

    I'm not sure I understand why we have to make a big deal about the word "fundamentalist" we have to use it openly?   Meaning....the term was coined in the 70's, I believe, but our belief system went WAY farther back than that time period.  If the meaning of the word "fundamentalist" is changing...should we change how we describe ourselves?
    Fundamentalist Mormons are known as mean and selfish polygamists.  Fundamentalist Muslims are known as murderers.  Fundamentalist Baptists are now known as Westboro.
    Would it be wrong to abandon the word "fundamental"?   I know that we just say we are Independent Baptist and "old fashioned" and " KJV ".   That pretty much sums it up...doesn't it?


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  1. Salyan » Kitagrl

    Hey - long time no see. Welcome back! :-)

    1. Kitagrl

      I know, it's been too long, sorry! I peek in here on and off but most of the time it's the same old discussions and I don't have anything to add. haha.

  2. Salyan » Kitagrl

    Happy birthday, kita!

  3. Kitagrl

    Hi & thanks for the ideas about the gifts; (I replied.) I agree about the hoops, at least if it's for girls. The pen is a great idea. Blessings.

  4. Kitagrl

    It may seem dark at the moment, but don't lose hope. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel, keep moving and you'll get there. God won't abandon you; let God be your light. It may take some time, but in the end, everything will be alright.

  5. Kitagrl

    Grrr trying to post in the Noah thread and my replies won't post!

  6. Kitagrl

    Its a pensive sort of day today...

    1. Miss Linda

      I was in a rather pensive mood yesterday morning, but things seemed to get better as the day went on. I hope you have the same experience. May God richly bless you today!

  7. Kitagrl

    I meant Proverbs 31

  8. Kitagrl

    The Proverbs 21 woman ran a business from home, that's pretty cool that you can help your husband, be a stay at home mom, and help the home financially.

  9. Kitagrl

    It's my birthday tomorrow...never blown a single cake candle ever since I was born. Hope I can tomorrow :-)

  10. Kitagrl

    Thanks so much!!!!

  11. Kitagrl

    I think your cakes are awesome looking!